it's no wonder why people hate new cars
If you want to know why so many people hate new cars so much, just look at the steering wheel.
Yeah, I am middle aged. Yeah, that means I have a bias towards older things because that's what I know best. But when it comes to cars, there's absolutely no question that the older stuff was much easier to deal with.
The example I will describe is a 2005 Toyota Tacoma vs. a 2025 Toyota Tacoma.
What you see when you sit in an '05 Tacoma is no buttons on the steering wheel except for one, the horn itself. The only screen is a small orange LED strip in the gauge cluster, which is either for odometer or trip odometer, depending on your preference. The only slightly complicated part of this design is the cruise control, which is a stubby little stalk behind the steering wheel at lower right - but it does have a very plainly labeled "ON/OFF" physical button. As for the other two stalks, the left is for turn signals and lights, and the right for windshield wiper control. All gauges are easy to read. Tachometer on the left, speedometer in the middle, fuel and temperature on the right.
This is a vehicle where you get in, turn the key (a real key, thank you), start the engine, and drive. Other than that stubby stalk you could figure out in 5 seconds, there's nothing else to figure out because it's all simple and easy.
What do you see when you sit in a '25 Tacoma? A complicated mess. You're presented with a gaggle of buttons on the steering wheel. Forget the giant screen to the right for a moment.
I'll first start with the only improvement in that the cruise control that used to be a little stubby stalk is now on the right side of the wheel. That's almost okay. Why almost? There's nothing there that states how to turn the cruise control on. Which button does this? You're not told. You're just magically supposed to know.
And things just get worse from there.
Look at the left side of the wheel. You could guess the bottom left two are for volume control, but volume of what? Stereo? Phone? Both? Again, you're not told. At bottom right of the left side cluster, an image of someone speaking. What's that for? You're not told.
Of every button on the left, the only one that explains what it is somewhat is the one with a phone image on it. Why somewhat? Well, does that button prompt for a Bluetooth connection to your smartphone? Or does that mean the vehicle itself has phone connectivity all on its own? You're not told. It's just "some phone thing". For all you know, pressing it might place a call you didn't want to happen.
On both the left and right side are arrow buttons. What do they do? Once again, you're not told.
The '25 Tacoma is a vehicle where STUDY is required in order to know everything that it does. You will have to take time out of your life to read the owner's manual just to figure out the STEERING WHEEL CONTROLS. And I honestly wonder if a regular steering wheel cover would even fit properly on it. Would it? Or are you doomed to a steering wheel you know will get grubby in under a year no matter how much you wash your hands?
And as for the infotainment screen, plan on taking more time out of your life just to figure out how THAT crap all works, because you'll need to.
Is the '25 Tacoma a vehicle you can just get in and drive? Technically, yes - as long as you don't do anything else but that. You'll look at that steering wheel see two "MODE" buttons literally on top of each other (there's a "big mode" and a "little mode" button labeled directly above it on the right side of the wheel), and be confused. You'll just have to deal with being confused until you study that manual.
Is this just a Toyota thing? Heh, no, of course not. All the automakers are doing this crap with their new cars.
And don't even get me started with EVs. The modern gas cars are bad enough. EVs are even worse because you're basically driving a phone. And yes, it is as bad as it sounds.
I'm absolutely positive that anybody under 30 would be simply amazed at how easy it is to drive regular (meaning not luxury) cars made 20 years ago, provided the car is in good working order. No dopey screens! Easy controls! Amazing!
For the overinflated prices new cars sell for, they should be simple and easy to drive. They're not.
i wish i knew about neti pots years ago
The older I get, the more I learn about stuff.
It didn't take long after 2025 began before I got my first cold of the year, and I have a standard list of things I do to make dealing with that easier. This is stuff I wish I knew when I was younger, but better late than never.
A neti pot is pretty much the only thing that will clear out numbness from my head due to a cold.
In the way my body works, when my sinus gets blocked up from a cold, the blockage favors the left side on my face. Ever since I was a kid, I've always been this way. This means I will sometimes feel numbness on the left side of my face when sick. This also sometimes means the numbness can be even worse after sleep since my face doesn't point straight up while sleeping.
Important note: This numbness I'm describing is absolutely not stroke. Some people get numbness on one side of the face and immediately think uh oh, stroke, then panic. That's not what this is. What I'm describing is a light numbness due to the sinus acting up from a seasonal cold. No loss of motor control, no speech problems, no blurred vision, none of that. Maybe a light dizziness if anything and that's pretty much it.
A neti pot is, in my experience, a very good way to get the sinus back in check.
The way I do the neti pot thing is like this:
- Fill the little pot up to the fill line (it will be marked) with cold distilled water
- Dump that into a clean coffee mug
- Mix in 1 teaspoon salt
- Heat that in the microwave for 30 seconds
- Dump that back into the neti pot
- Use the pot. Water goes up the nose and drained out.
I do this twice in a row, one time for each nostril.
Does this completely clear out the numbness? No, because that takes time since it's not instant. But it does noticeably bring down the numbness in a way I can feel.
The other thing I do is keep the ears clear. What I'm about to describe is very atypical of how most people clear ears, but this works for me.
All I use to keep the ears clear is warm water, applied with an eye dropper. Run some warm water in the sink, fill the eye dropper, tilt the head, place eye dropper up to the ear, gently squirt water in ear canal, then listen. If the water gets in the ear canal easily, I tilt the head the other way and drain the water out. If the water doesn't move down the canal like it's supposed to, I'll keep draining and adding water again until I hear some movement. What's happening here is that if there's a blockage, it takes a few rounds of warm-to-lightly-hot water before the blockage starts to break up. When it does and I hear the water moving in the ear canal, then I know I'm done.
What I used to do before this was the hydrogen peroxide method. This is where you fill an eye dropper with hydrogen peroxide, lay on your side, fill the ear canal with the peroxide, then wait 5 minutes. During this time, the peroxide does its bubbling thing, which you can hear easily. After that 5 minutes, turn over on to a towel and let the ear drain for another 5 minutes, then fill the other ear and repeat.
I get better results from the warm-to-hot water thing for my ears.
Aside from that, I get a big ol' bag of sugar free cough drops and pop one every so often. This helps. It's basically just sugar-free candy with menthol in it for that "icy" effect that helps with keeping the nasal passages clear.
And last but not least is NyQuil Cold & Flu. I use the old school red colored kind, meaning not the one labeled "SEVERE", not the honey one, not VapoCOOL, and not the other colors. I use the one that's been around for decades, take it once daily before bed, and only when I have a cold.
I'm not saying what I just described above is the guaranteed way to fight a cold, but it works for me.
my ups and downs with usb
When I first started using PCs as a kid, there were only two portable storage formats. Tape (as in microcassette) and floppies (as in floppy diskettes). That was it. Tape was way too slow, so I used floppies, and I always hated them.
Floppies always sucked because they could barely hold anything. Yeah, they were fine for storing documents, but images? Unless they were resized to be really small, forget about it.
When the compact disc got affordable, those were... okay. Yeah, nice to have up to 700MB storage, but whenever you burned a disc, it was just like the floppy where your computer was absolutely dedicated to that file writing task until it was done. With DVD, same thing.
USB 1.1 sticks sucked. Too slow, and what was available didn't hold as much as DVDs did. USB 2.0 sticks, okay, better, but still a bit slow. USB 3.0, yeah, now we're talking. This is usable. Speedy, and acts just like a drive for the most part. And at the time I write this, 512GB sticks are cheap and plentiful.
All good, right? Well, not really because USB obviously isn't just for storage but also to connect peripherals. Keyboards, mice, wireless crap sometimes, printers sometimes, and so on.
My two favorite USB connector types are A (the larger rectangle) and mini. I do not like USB-C even though I know it's superior. I'll get back to that in a moment.
Last year in '24, I had to buy a USB hub. There are a lot of them out there, but this I know: Only use unpowered 4-port, and only for device connections and data transfer. The 7-port ones suck because they will fail way sooner than a 4-port will, and having it powered to charge things is just a bad idea because that makes the hub fail even faster.
If I need to charge anything via USB (such as my phone), I plug it into a block that goes right to the wall. This works fine. No problems.
My USB-A and mini USB devices (which is most of my Garmin navigators) never have problems connecting to a computer. Same for my micro USB devices (those are few in number but they work properly also). I use Linux primarily, but also have a Windows laptop. If I connect USB-A or mini USB to either OS, no problems. They work. But if it's a USB-C thing... sometimes stupid stuff happens.
For example, Once a USB-C connection is established, it's nice and speedy as it should be. However, the establishing of the connection is slower compared to USB-A, mini or micro. I can plug in a USB-A and the device is almost instantly recognized by the computer. But USB-C? No. Takes a little longer, and I have no idea why. Again, once the connection is there, yeah, good. But the fact there's additional waiting with the newer "better" connector? Dumb. And this is not a Linux thing because I see the same crap happen on Windows on an entirely different computer. It's not the computer, not the device, not the hub, not the cable, not any of that. It's something to do with USB-C itself causing the additional wait time. Again, dumb.
I hate the fact you must use specific USB-C cables just so that technology actually works correctly. If you need to charge anything, it HAS to be a charging cord type. If it's not, problems will happen. This was never a requirement with USB-A, mini or micro. You could use the crappiest, junkiest cable and it would work for charging, connectivity or data. Older USB tech never complained about cable type, but USB-C absolutely does. USB-C is so stupid that there are specific Android Auto cables just so it works like it's supposed to. Once again, dumb.
The whole point of C was to have one connector to eliminate cables... but it didn't happen. Most people need 2 to 3 cables (data, charging, car) just for one modern smartphone.
Said once again, dumb.
2024 was about acceptance
Today, 2024-Dec-31, is the last day of 2024. This year in particular involved emotional things that I've accepted.
I'm close to reaching the fifth decade of life, which happens next year.
Part of my brain says meh, age is just a number. But another part says hey, pay attention to it, because it matters... although I can't rightly figure out why it would matter. So when my brain says hey there, pay attention when that age rolls around, I think okay, pay attention to what, specifically? I don't have an answer. Weird.
I don't have a problem accepting the age I am, but there's some infighting going on in my mind about whether the number is supposed to matter or not. I'm thinking not.
Certain things are as good as they're ever going to get
That DriveSmart 76 I bought? Yeah, about that..
I've been trying to find a perfect car navigation solution for years, but it simply doesn't exist. Out of all the nav systems I've tried, the DS76 is as good as it gets since all nav apps for the phone are trash. While the DS76 isn't perfect, chasing perfection with a nav system is a fool's errand. I accept that now, use what works, and if I encounter little annoyances, oh well. It's not like there's anything better.
Letting go of chasing perfection is a thing I had to do a few times in '24. Here are a few examples:
There's no such thing as a perfect pen, so I settled with Zebra Z-Grip Retractable ballpoints because I got sick of buying pens. Good enough.
There's no such thing as a perfect guitar string, so I just use Ernie Ball Super Slinky in .008 size.
There's no such thing as a perfect computer mouse, so I bought a few wired USB optical mice spares. The Microsoft Basic Optical wired USB works for me. I very much appreciate "wired, plug it in, no drivers or control software required, just works" computer mice.
The two main advantages to letting go of chasing perfection is that it makes things easier, and opens up paths to happiness not ordinarily seen otherwise.
It is totally okay to stay within certain bubbles
This one actually concerns what I write here.
I need to remember that you can't please everybody.
There have been times I've written full articles (long ones, mind you), but then scrapped and never posted them solely for reasons such as uses old popular culture references only people over 45 would recognize, overly technical and may go over the heads of some readers, assumes foreknowledge the reader may not have, and so on.
I accept that I have self-imposed rules for what I post here that I really need to let go of.
This may mean more free form stuff will appear for future articles with a decidedly "for people that grew up in my time" and/or "this is for nerds" vibe to it...
...and there's nothing wrong with that. That's the thing I need to both accept and remember. I suppose that's one for the New Year's Resolutions list.
meowmus the cat
I didn't ask for a cat in my life, but this one just happened to show up.
A few months back, some new neighbors moved into the house next to the one I live in. No big deal. A short while later, they got a cat. Okay. Some time passes, and the cat started exploring. Cat ends up on top of the wooden fence separating the properties. It's just there, not scared at all, and mew'ing. I go to pet the cat. It lets me, and eagerly.
I figure okay, cat is on the fence, and it likes me (a lot), whatever. I give him a few pets, then he putters off back to his owners. No big deal.
Meowmus then starts appearing on the fence routinely. He's in good shape, well fed (he's definitely not starving or anything), and doesn't have that wild/feral cat thing going on at all. Bear in mind I grew up in a house where cats were around all the time, so if he exhibited stuff like fleas, dander or whatever, believe me, I would know. And if he got messed up by doing outdoor cat things that cats do, again, I would know.
I made a decision early on not to feed Meowmus at all, because I knew if I did, he'd never leave.
Well, that didn't stop him from wanting to come over for a visit...
...daily.
Meowmus is absolutely the neighbor's cat, but what happens is that after he gets fed by the neighbors and then put out to do whatever, he hops the fence and comes over to visit.
What does he want, Fancy Feast? Some catnip, perhaps? Nope. Pets and playtime. This cat is a total love monger. He wants his pets and play, and if he doesn't get that, he's very vocal about it. You'd swear he's a Siamese given how vocal he is, even though he's not. He also likes chasing sticks where if I take a stick and drag it on the ground, he pounces on it.
Oftentimes, Meowmus will wait under my car until I come outside. I come out, and mew-mew-mew, there he is.
When it gets dark out, Meowmus goes home back to the neighbor's house. He knows where the food is.
I always wash my hands and use hand sanitizer after touching Meowmus. Better safe than sorry. Only once in my life did I have a bad reaction to a cat. Oddly enough, it was an indoor cat that was mine. She probably got into something, I pet her later and whammo, hands got all rashed up a day later. They cleared after a few weeks. Yeah, this happened a long time ago, and again it was only once, but I never forgot it because it sucked. That experience taught me that even if a pet is in your house and never goes outside, doesn't matter, wash your hands and sanitize. It's generally good practice to do that anyway.
Meowmus is actually smart because he hardly goes anywhere and stays where it's safe, which is the neighbor's place and where I am. This cat has plenty of opportunity to just run off wherever, but nope, he pretty much likes where he is and stays put. He's also a people cat and loves everybody.
I don't actually know what the cat's real name is. I call him Meowmus.
I don't know how long Meowmus will stick around, but he's one of the friendliest cats I've ever met. He gets fed elsewhere, pops by for pets and play, sleeps under my car for a while (but he knows to scoot if he hears the car start), then goes home.
I'm okay with that.